The complete reality of it all is this:

Things happen.

Although we might not always agree with it.

Things are always going to happen.

so roll with the punches, take every second as it is.

check yourself.

.... check your motives

.... check your actions

.... check your prerogatives

.... check everything!

seriously.

one selfish move while you're in the moment can destroy so much in the long run.

and face it, there is no turning back time.

eventually, things will iron out. Time... everything takes time to heal.

... relationships, feelings, pride, trust... They're gonna take time to heal, just like a flesh wound. you can't expect to get up and run with a broken leg.

But we all make mistakes. God puts us through these things for a reason; so we can learn. So we can come out of them knowing what to do the next time. And finally, so we can teach and share with our experience.

But boy does it suck when you're going through it. 0.o